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SOCW 6202 (8203W) Term 5.26.25 zuleika rosa June 30, 2025, 12:00 PM EDT, 15 mins

[00:02] Speaker 1: Hi there.

[00:02] Speaker 1: Hi there.

[00:02] Speaker 1: Can you hear me?

[00:02] Speaker 1: Can you hear me?

[00:05] Speaker 1: Yes.

[00:05] Speaker 2: Yes.

[00:05] Speaker 1: I can hear you.

[00:05] Speaker 1: Okay.

[00:05] Speaker 2: I can hear you.

[00:06] Speaker 1: Okay.

[00:07] Speaker 1: Great.

[00:07] Speaker 1: Great.

[00:07] Speaker 1: Do you mind pronouncing your name for me, please?

[00:08] Speaker 1: Do you mind pronouncing your name for me, please?

[00:10] Speaker 1: Suleika Rosa.

[00:10] Speaker 2: Suleika Rosa.

[00:12] Speaker 1: Suleka.

[00:12] Speaker 1: Suleika.

[00:13] Speaker 1: Am I saying that correctly?

[00:13] Speaker 1: Am I saying that correctly?

[00:15] Speaker 1: Yes.

[00:15] Speaker 2: Yes.

[00:16] Speaker 1: Okay.

[00:16] Speaker 1: Okay.

[00:17] Speaker 1: Nice to meet you.

[00:17] Speaker 1: Nice to meet you.

[00:17] Speaker 1: My name is Michael.

[00:18] Speaker 1: My name is Michael.

[00:19] Speaker 1: I'm gonna be your facilitator for today.

[00:19] Speaker 1: I'm gonna be your facilitator for today.

[00:20] Speaker 1: How are you?

[00:20] Speaker 1: How are you?

[00:21] Speaker 1: Good.

[00:22] Speaker 2: Good.

[00:22] Speaker 1: And yourself?

[00:22] Speaker 2: And yourself?

[00:23] Speaker 1: I'm doing alright.

[00:23] Speaker 1: I'm doing alright.

[00:24] Speaker 1: Thanks for asking.

[00:24] Speaker 1: Thanks for asking.

[00:25] Speaker 1: Is this your first time doing a simulation with us?

[00:25] Speaker 1: Is this your first time doing a simulation with us?

[00:28] Speaker 1: Yes.

[00:28] Speaker 2: Yes.

[00:29] Speaker 1: Cool.

[00:29] Speaker 1: Cool.

[00:29] Speaker 1: Alright.

[00:29] Speaker 1: Alright.

[00:30] Speaker 1: Well, then welcome to Walden Simulation Center.

[00:30] Speaker 1: Well, then welcome to Walden Simulation Center.

[00:32] Speaker 1: I'm just here to make sure that we're on the same page

about what you have to do.

[00:32] Speaker 1: I'm just here to make sure that we're on the same page

about what you have to do.

[00:35] Speaker 1: Okay?

[00:35] Speaker 1: Okay?

[00:36] Speaker 1: Okay.

[00:36] Speaker 2: Okay.

[00:37] Speaker 1: Yeah.

[00:37] Speaker 1: Yeah.

[00:37] Speaker 1: So in your own words, do you mind just giving me a brief

description of who you're gonna be speaking with and what the meeting's

about?

[00:37] Speaker 1: So in your own words, do you mind just giving me a brief

description of who you're gonna be speaking with and what the meeting's

about?

[00:45] Speaker 1: It's gonna be with Susan.

[00:45] Speaker 2: It's gonna be with Susan.

[00:47] Speaker 1: She is a fifty six year old female that has Alzheimer's.

[00:47] Speaker 2: She is a fifty six year old female that

[00:57] Speaker 2: Has Alzheimer's.

[00:59] Speaker 1: You mean her mother has Alzheimer's?

[01:02] Speaker 1: Oh, I believe so.

[01:02] Speaker 2: Oh, I believe so.

[01:07] Speaker 1: Yes.

[01:07] Speaker 1: Yes.

[01:07] Speaker 1: That is the that is the situation.

[01:07] Speaker 1: That is the that is You mean her mother has Alzheimer's?

[01:09] Speaker 1: The situation.

[01:15] Speaker 1: Did you have any questions for me about your objectives

or anything that you want me to clarify?

[01:15] Speaker 1: Did you have any questions for me about your objectives

or anything that you want me to clarify?

[01:20] Speaker 1: I don't know what I am, supposed to do, so I'm just

[01:20] Speaker 2: I don't know what I am

[01:24] Speaker 2: supposed to do, so I'm just trying to do this training, I

guess.

[01:29] Speaker 1: Yeah.

[01:30] Speaker 1: Yeah.

[01:30] Speaker 1: So you're gonna be acting as her therapist slash so social

worker.

[01:30] Speaker 1: So you're gonna be acting as her therapist slash so social

worker.

[01:37] Speaker 1: She's coming in because her husband is concerned that

she's trying to do this training, I guess.

[01:37] Speaker 1: She's coming in because her husband is concerned that

she's having alcohol problems.

[01:46] Speaker 1: She doesn't seem to think so, and so having alcohol

problems.

[01:47] Speaker 1: She doesn't seem to think so, and so your objectives are

to establish rapport for her, you know, by introducing yourself, your objectives

are to establish rapport for, you know, by introducing yourself, and then ask

her some open ended questions to kind of get her perspective of what's going

on and then ask her some open ended questions to kind of get her

perspective of what's going on and create some next steps that she feels

comfortable with.

[02:03] Speaker 1: And create some next steps that she feels comfortable

with.

[02:10] Speaker 1: Okay.

[02:10] Speaker 2: Okay.

[02:10] Speaker 1: Is this only a onetime session?

[02:10] Speaker 2: Is this only a onetime session?

[02:13] Speaker 1: Or Okay.

[02:14] Speaker 2: Or

[02:14] Speaker 1: Yes.

[02:14] Speaker 1: Yes.

[02:16] Speaker 2: Okay.

[02:18] Speaker 1: If you don't feel prepared, and you would like to

reschedule, you can always ask your per, you can always reschedule, but you

would have to ask your instructor for permission.

[02:18] Speaker 1: If you don't feel prepared and you would like to reschedule,

you can always ask your per you can always reschedule, but you would have

to ask your instructor for permission.

[02:27] Speaker 1: I'm I'm prepared.

[02:28] Speaker 2: I'm I'm prepared.

[02:29] Speaker 1: I've done this for many years.

[02:29] Speaker 2: I've done this for many years.

[02:31] Speaker 1: So Okay.

[02:31] Speaker 2: So

[02:33] Speaker 1: Okay.

[02:33] Speaker 1: Sounds good.

[02:33] Speaker 1: Sounds good.

[02:34] Speaker 1: Well, just keep in mind, you'll have a maximum of fifteen

minutes.

[02:34] Speaker 1: Well, just keep in mind, you'll have a maximum of fifteen

minutes.

[02:38] Speaker 1: You don't need to use all of it.

[02:38] Speaker 1: You don't need to use all of it.

[02:39] Speaker 1: And when you're done with the conversation, I'll come

back.

[02:39] Speaker 1: And when you're done with the conversation, I'll come

back.

[02:42] Speaker 1: We'll talk about how it went, then you'll be free to go.

[02:42] Speaker 1: We'll talk about how it went, and then you'll be free to go.

[02:47] Speaker 2: Alrighty.

[02:48] Speaker 1: Alrighty.

[02:48] Speaker 1: Thank you.

[02:48] Speaker 2: Thank you.

[02:49] Speaker 1: Alright.

[02:49] Speaker 1: Alright.

[02:50] Speaker 1: Thank you.

[02:50] Speaker 1: Thank you.

[02:50] Speaker 1: Enjoy the rest of your day.

[02:50] Speaker 1: Enjoy the rest of your day.

[02:52] Speaker 1: I or enjoy this session, and I'll see you after.

[02:52] Speaker 1: I mean, or enjoy this session.

[02:54] Speaker 2: I'll see

[02:54] Speaker 1: you after.

[02:55] Speaker 1: Yes.

[02:55] Speaker 1: Yes.

[02:56] Speaker 1: Alright.

[02:57] Speaker 1: Alright.

[02:58] Speaker 1: Switching over now.

[02:58] Speaker 1: Switching over now.

[03:08] Speaker 1: Hello, Susan.

[03:08] Speaker 2: Hello, Susan.

[03:09] Speaker 1: My name is Suleika, and I will be your social worker today.

[03:09] Speaker 2: My name is Suleika, and I will be your social worker today.

[03:14] Speaker 2: Hi.

[03:14] Speaker 3: Hi.

[03:15] Speaker 3: Nice to meet you.

[03:15] Speaker 2: Nice to meet you.

[03:16] Speaker 1: How are you doing?

[03:16] Speaker 2: How are you doing?

[03:19] Speaker 2: Doing alright, I guess.

[03:19] Speaker 3: Doing alright, I guess.

[03:21] Speaker 3: It's this is my first time doing therapy, and I don't know.

[03:21] Speaker 2: It's this is my first time doing therapy and

[03:26] Speaker 2: I don't know.

[03:27] Speaker 2: Honestly, it's not really my choice or, you know, like what I

would like to be doing right now, but, you know, sorry.

[03:27] Speaker 3: Honestly, it's not really my choice

[03:29] Speaker 3: or, you know, like, what I would like to be doing right now,

but, you know, sorry.

[03:35] Speaker 3: I'm okay.

[03:36] Speaker 2: I'm okay.

[03:37] Speaker 1: It's okay.

[03:37] Speaker 2: It's okay.

[03:39] Speaker 1: I just wanna let you know that everything

[03:39] Speaker 2: I just wanna let you know that everything that is being said

in this room will be confidential

[03:41] Speaker 1: that is being said in this room will be confidential.

[03:45] Speaker 1: Unless you would want to harm yourself or others, then I

would discuss it with my peers,

[03:45] Speaker 2: Unless you would want to harm yourself or others, then I

would discuss it with my peers, and we'll take extra measures of that.

[03:53] Speaker 1: and we'll take extra measures of that.

[03:56] Speaker 1: Can you tell me a little bit of why are you here today?

[03:56] Speaker 2: Can you tell me a little bit of why are you here today?

[04:02] Speaker 3: My husband is, you know, concerned that I have a drinking

problem, which I don't.

[04:02] Speaker 2: My husband is,

[04:05] Speaker 2: you know, concerned that I have a drinking problem, which

I don't.

[04:11] Speaker 3: But I,

[04:11] Speaker 2: But I, you know, am indulging his concern.

[04:12] Speaker 3: you know, am indulging his concern.

[04:15] Speaker 3: He thinks that I should talk to a therapist.

[04:15] Speaker 2: He thinks that I should talk to a therapist.

[04:18] Speaker 2: So,

[04:18] Speaker 3: So, you know, I wanna be a good sport.

[04:19] Speaker 2: You know, I wanna be a good sport.

[04:21] Speaker 3: So this might be a waste of time, honestly.

[04:21] Speaker 2: So this might be a waste of time, honestly.

[04:25] Speaker 2: I'm so sorry if I'm wasting your time.

[04:25] Speaker 3: So sorry if I'm

[04:27] Speaker 3: Wasting your time.

[04:30] Speaker 2: Yeah.

[04:30] Speaker 1: It's okay.

[04:30] Speaker 2: Yeah.

[04:31] Speaker 2: It's okay.

[04:31] Speaker 2: There's not yeah.

[04:31] Speaker 2: Yeah.

[04:33] Speaker 1: It's okay.

[04:33] Speaker 2: It's okay.

[04:33] Speaker 1: You're not wasting anyone's time.

[04:34] Speaker 2: You're not wasting anyone's time.

[04:35] Speaker 2: We're just here to answer any unrelated questions, maybe

anything that you may have.

[04:36] Speaker 1: We're just here to answer any unrelated questions, maybe

anything that you may have.

[04:42] Speaker 1: And why do you think your husband

[04:42] Speaker 2: And why do you think your husband why why do you think

he thinks that you have a drinking problem?

[04:46] Speaker 1: why why do you think he thinks that you have a drinking

problem?

[04:52] Speaker 2: I I'm not entirely sure.

[04:52] Speaker 3: I I'm not entirely sure.

[04:55] Speaker 2: I mean, I can kind of guess that, like, maybe it's because

in, like, the past,

[04:55] Speaker 3: I mean, I can kind of guess that, like,

[04:58] Speaker 3: maybe it's because in, like, the past, like, February, there

have been, like, two instances where maybe I wasn't my best self after I

drank.

[05:01] Speaker 2: Like, two months there have been, like, two instances

where maybe I wasn't my best self after I drank.

[05:12] Speaker 3: So because of these two mistakes, he has come to the

conclusion that I'm coping with stress in my life

[05:12] Speaker 2: So because of these two mistakes, he

[05:16] Speaker 2: has come to the conclusion that I'm coping with stress in

my life because of by by by drinking, I guess.

[05:23] Speaker 3: Because of by by by drinking, I guess.

[05:27] Speaker 2: I don't know.

[05:27] Speaker 3: I don't know.

[05:30] Speaker 1: And, by drinking, you stated it's only happened two

occasions, or do you drink, on a regular basis?

[05:30] Speaker 2: And by drinking, you stated it's only happened two

occasions, or do you drink on a regular basis?

[05:38] Speaker 1: Like, how often do you drink?

[05:38] Speaker 2: Like, how often do you

[05:39] Speaker 2: Drink?

[05:40] Speaker 3: I just drink a few glasses of wine in the evenings before

bed.

[05:40] Speaker 2: I just drink a few glasses of wine in the evenings before

bed.

[05:45] Speaker 3: Okay.

[05:45] Speaker 1: Okay.

[05:46] Speaker 2: That's all.

[05:46] Speaker 3: That's all.

[05:47] Speaker 3: The occasions I was talking about are just, like, these rare

moments where I made a mistake and,

[05:48] Speaker 2: The occasions I was talking about are just like these rare

moments where I made a mistake and, you know, that's it.

[05:54] Speaker 3: You know, that's it.

[05:57] Speaker 1: Okay.

[05:57] Speaker 2: Okay.

[05:58] Speaker 1: Would you like to discuss those, at least one occasion of

the mistakes of what happened?

[05:58] Speaker 2: Would you like to discuss those at least one occasion of

the mistakes of what happened?

[06:06] Speaker 2: Sure.

[06:06] Speaker 3: Sure.

[06:07] Speaker 3: Yeah.

[06:07] Speaker 2: Yeah.

[06:07] Speaker 3: I mean,

[06:07] Speaker 2: I mean, so my husband and I were at a friend's house, and

the four of us were all drinking, mind you.

[06:08] Speaker 3: So my husband and I were at a friend's house and the four

of us were all drinking, mind you.

[06:15] Speaker 3: But I guess I just didn't have enough dinner that night, you

know, how sometimes it can affect you more when you're on an empty

stomach and

[06:15] Speaker 2: But I guess I just didn't have enough dinner that night, you

know, how sometimes it can affect you more when you're on an empty

stomach and yeah.

[06:24] Speaker 3: yeah.

[06:24] Speaker 2: I I guess I was just a little bit more tipsy than

[06:24] Speaker 3: I I guess I was just a little bit more tipsy than expected and

I accidentally knocked over a vase.

[06:27] Speaker 2: Expected and I accidentally knocked over a vase.

[06:34] Speaker 3: You know, my friends were a little pissed.

[06:34] Speaker 2: You know my friends were a little pissed.

[06:37] Speaker 2: I offered to pay for it you know but

[06:37] Speaker 3: I offered to pay for it, know, but my husband was

embarrassed and on the way home he was saying that I need to control

myself more and that he thinks that it's starting to become a problem.

[06:42] Speaker 2: My husband was embarrassed and on the way home he

was saying that I need to control myself more and that he thinks that it's

starting to become a problem.

[06:52] Speaker 3: And I'm just like, this has never happened before.

[06:52] Speaker 2: And I'm just like,

[06:54] Speaker 2: this has never happened before.

[06:56] Speaker 3: You know?

[06:56] Speaker 2: You know?

[06:57] Speaker 3: Like, I've never made I've never done something like that.

[06:57] Speaker 2: Like, I've never made I've never done something like that.

[07:00] Speaker 3: Can you just give me a little bit of grace?

[07:00] Speaker 2: Can you just give me a little bit of grace?

[07:01] Speaker 3: Like, I can't make one mistake without you

[07:01] Speaker 2: Like, I can't make one mistake without you now accusing

me of being an alcoholic?

[07:05] Speaker 3: Now accusing me of being an alcoholic?

[07:07] Speaker 2: Like,

[07:07] Speaker 3: Like, that doesn't make any sense.

[07:09] Speaker 3: It just felt very unfair, and I felt very misunderstood.

[07:09] Speaker 2: It just felt very unfair, and I felt very unmisunderstood.

[07:15] Speaker 2: Understood.

[07:15] Speaker 1: Understood.

[07:16] Speaker 1: Okay.

[07:16] Speaker 2: Okay.

[07:16] Speaker 1: I understand.

[07:17] Speaker 2: I understand.

[07:18] Speaker 1: Yes.

[07:18] Speaker 2: Yes.

[07:18] Speaker 1: It was not, you know, very nice that your friends were

upset that you knocked over a vase.

[07:19] Speaker 2: It was not, you know, that doesn't make any sense.

[07:21] Speaker 2: very nice that your friends were upset that you knocked

over a vase.

[07:27] Speaker 1: But how about this?

[07:27] Speaker 2: But how about this?

[07:29] Speaker 1: Has has there been any any

[07:29] Speaker 2: Has has there been any any issues at home with you and

your husband besides the whole drinking

[07:32] Speaker 1: issues at home with you and your husband besides the

whole drinking concerns?

[07:38] Speaker 2: No.

[07:39] Speaker 3: No.

[07:40] Speaker 2: Not really.

[07:40] Speaker 3: Not really.

[07:41] Speaker 2: Like, things at home are, like, a little like, a lot's going on in

our life right now, but concerns?

[07:41] Speaker 3: Like, things at home are, like, a little like, a lot's going on in

our life right now, but

[07:50] Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with our, you know, relationship.

[07:50] Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with our, you know, relationship.

[07:54] Speaker 1: Okay.

[07:54] Speaker 2: Okay.

[07:55] Speaker 1: And how about employment?

[07:55] Speaker 2: And how about employment?

[07:56] Speaker 1: Are both of you working?

[07:56] Speaker 2: Are both of you working?

[07:59] Speaker 2: Yeah.

[07:59] Speaker 3: Yeah.

[07:59] Speaker 2: I I've been a nursing assistant for fifteen years.

[07:59] Speaker 3: I I've been a nursing assistant for fifteen years.

[08:04] Speaker 1: Oh, wow.

[08:04] Speaker 2: Oh, wow.

[08:04] Speaker 1: Okay.

[08:05] Speaker 2: Okay.

[08:06] Speaker 3: Yeah.

[08:06] Speaker 2: Yeah.

[08:07] Speaker 3: Exactly.

[08:07] Speaker 2: Exactly.

[08:07] Speaker 2: It's not like I'm day drinking or, you know, binge drinking or

getting blackout drunk or having a hangover or I'm not abusive emotionally or

physically.

[08:07] Speaker 3: It's not like I'm day drinking or, you know, binge drinking or

I'm getting drunk or having a hangover or I'm not abusive emotionally or

physically.

[08:13] Speaker 1: Right.

[08:18] Speaker 3: Like,

[08:18] Speaker 2: Like, you know, I don't understand where this is coming

from.

[08:19] Speaker 3: you

[08:21] Speaker 2: know?

[08:21] Speaker 1: Okay.

[08:21] Speaker 2: Okay.

[08:22] Speaker 3: I don't understand where this is coming from.

[08:25] Speaker 1: Right.

[08:25] Speaker 2: Right.

[08:25] Speaker 1: Right.

[08:25] Speaker 2: Right.

[08:26] Speaker 1: Okay.

[08:26] Speaker 2: Okay.

[08:26] Speaker 1: And then how about families?

[08:26] Speaker 2: And then how about families?

[08:29] Speaker 1: Is there any do you have any children?

[08:29] Speaker 2: Is there any do you have any children?

[08:31] Speaker 1: Is there any

[08:31] Speaker 2: Is there any any, you know, issues at all at home that

maybe, you know, this is just or do you just you're just drinking when you're,

you know, you get home from work before going to bed?

[08:32] Speaker 1: Any, you know, issues at all at home that maybe, you

know, this is just or do you're just you're just drinking when you're you know,

you get home from work before going to bed?

[08:45] Speaker 3: Yeah.

[08:45] Speaker 2: Yeah.

[08:45] Speaker 2: It's just before bed.

[08:46] Speaker 3: It's just before bed.

[08:46] Speaker 3: When I get home from work, I I'm taking care of my mother

who's recently been living with us.

[08:46] Speaker 2: When I get home from work, I I'm taking care of my

mother, who's, recently been living with us.

[08:53] Speaker 2: And, my children are all grown up and out of the house, so

[08:53] Speaker 3: And my children are all grown up and out of the house, so I

don't know.

[08:57] Speaker 2: I don't know.

[08:58] Speaker 3: I feel like,

[08:58] Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, I'm a fifty seven year old woman.

[09:00] Speaker 3: You know, I'm a fifty seven year old woman.

[09:02] Speaker 2: I should have the autonomy to choose what I do with my

time when I relax.

[09:02] Speaker 3: I should have the autonomy to choose what I do with my

time when I relax.

[09:07] Speaker 1: Right.

[09:08] Speaker 2: Right.

[09:08] Speaker 1: Right.

[09:08] Speaker 2: Right.

[09:09] Speaker 1: Right.

[09:09] Speaker 2: Right.

[09:09] Speaker 1: Okay.

[09:09] Speaker 2: Okay.

[09:11] Speaker 1: I mean, I would like to maybe do, like, a treatment plan

and any goals.

[09:11] Speaker 2: I mean, I would like

[09:13] Speaker 2: to maybe do, like, a treatment plan and any goals.

[09:16] Speaker 1: Would there

[09:17] Speaker 2: Would there be any goals that you would like to maybe

accomplish in, you know, in in the time being here in therapy or

[09:17] Speaker 1: be any goals that you would like to maybe, accomplish in,

you know, in in the time being here in therapy or maybe in thirty days you

would like?

[09:26] Speaker 2: Maybe in thirty days you would like?

[09:29] Speaker 1: Any goals that you would like to accomplish that I can help

you with?

[09:29] Speaker 2: Any goals that you would like to accomplish that I can help

you with?

[09:37] Speaker 2: I mean, I'm okay with continuing to do this, you know, like I

mean, things have been a little bit stressful and it's nice to talk about it, I

guess.

[09:37] Speaker 3: I mean, I'm okay with continuing to do this.

[09:40] Speaker 3: You know?

[09:40] Speaker 3: Like

[09:42] Speaker 3: I mean, things have been a little bit stressful and it's nice to

talk about it, I guess.

[09:48] Speaker 3: But I don't know.

[09:48] Speaker 2: But I don't know.

[09:49] Speaker 2: I just don't want this to turn into, like, you're gonna try to

eventually convince

[09:49] Speaker 3: I just don't want this to turn into, like, you're gonna try to